Why Is Autism in Girls Often Overlooked?
Girls with autism often remain “invisible” not only because of stereotypes but also due to the different ways in which symptoms present compared to boys. Girls are often able to adapt to their surroundings – they observe and imitate the behavior of others, suppress their feelings, and frequently learn to “mask” their discomfort. As a result, their behavior may appear “acceptable” or “normal,” making it difficult to recognize that they are actually in need of support.
How Are the Symptoms Different?
Although girls may appear socially active and communicative on the outside, this doesn’t mean they aren’t struggling. Internally, they may be fighting an intense emotional battle. For example, after a stressful school day or social event, they may feel exhausted, avoid loved ones, and withdraw into themselves. These signs are less obvious than those typically seen in boys, so they are often overlooked or misinterpreted.
The Phenomenon of Masking
Masking is a conscious or unconscious attempt to suppress autistic traits in order to meet social expectations. For instance, a girl who is overwhelmed by a noisy classroom may still try to participate in group activities, but feel completely drained afterward. If a child feels exhausted, anxious, or begins avoiding social situations after interacting with others, this may be a sign of internal stress that is not being openly expressed.
Constant adaptation and masking can lead to significant emotional fatigue over time. In trying to meet the expectations of others, girls may lose the ability to be themselves and start to feel overwhelmed, anxious, or even depressed.
What Can Be Done?
Pay attention if a girl becomes withdrawn, avoids communication, or shows restricted but very intense interests. If a child begins to exhibit such signs, it may be time for a more thorough evaluation. Early diagnosis and appropriate support can help girls better understand their needs, learn emotional regulation skills, and adjust more effectively to their environment.
Girls and women on the autism spectrum are often unheard. Greater understanding and proper support can change that. Let’s help all children feel accepted and understood – because only then can we build an inclusive society where everyone feels valued and needed.